I started
WOW DAD! for two reasons, one serious, the other not but just as important.
When Scott was about
three years old, I noticed how much he enjoyed the little things that
I did for him: flipping a coin, flying a paper airplane, skipping a
rock. A trip to the county fair was great, but so was a couple of hours
throwing rocks into a stream.
As a first-time
father and then as a single father, I had put a lot of time and energy
into 'wowing' Scott. But he didn't need it. I talked to other parents,
teachers, and eventually child psychologists, and I learned that the
most important thing for children is to have both parents happily involved
in their lives.
I learned that many
parents are good at creating special events, but have forgotten the
importance of special moments. And it's these moments that children
treasure and remember, and that create real bonds between each parent
and child.
Sometimes a big
event is just plain wonderful. Every child should be taken to the circus
when it's in town. But as we get caught up in our busy lives with all
the twenty-five screen theatres, multi-level arcades and 3-D video games
out there these days, it's easy to forget how easy it is to do something
special for a child.
So I started making
a list of the little tricks and fun things that had created so many
special moments for Scott and me. I remembered games that my father
had shown me, I did some reading, some of my friends added their own
ideas, and before I knew it, I had enough to share here.
With the tips in
these books, anyone can create fun and memories with children anywhere
and anytime. The activities are fun, fast, simple to prepare, and easy
to do. You may find that some of them stimulate a few questions along
the way, and the search for the answers will create more special moments
for you.
And here's my other
reason for writing WOW DAD!
I love it when Scott
looks at me as if I'm the greatest thing since the Muppets. Cultivating
curiosity in a child is definitely a worthy goal. But the real fun of
these books is to make your child say "Wow Dad!" because after
"I love you," that is the greatest sound of all.